The
older you are, the more Christmas memories you have. I have a lot of Christmas memories. Please allow me to share a few with you.
My
Johnston grandparents, George and Mattie, were married on Christmas
Day, 1900 (okay, I wasn’t around for that, but please let me
continue.). Travel was by horse and buggy, so entire families seldom
got together...except for Christmas.
My grandparents' wedding Christmas Day, 1900
We
probably think that Christmas Day would not be a good day for a
wedding, but you can understand how it worked at the beginning of the
20th century.
Some
people are fortunate, or not so fortunate, to have been born on
Christmas. The best man at my wedding is an example.
As
a kid, I received exactly what I wanted from Santa, a double-decker
car garage, including little cars. After a full day of playing with
my new treasure, I put it on my bed and then dozed off to sleep. The
next morning it was flattened! I forgot to mention my younger brother
and I slept in bunk beds, me on top and Jim on the bottom. In the
middle of the night, Jim had a dream and rolled off the bed and came
crashing down on top of my new car garage! I wanted to hit him, but
couldn’t very well punish him for such a thing. To this day I
wonder if he really did do it on purpose. Oh well, love you, Bro!
My
neighborhood friend had an Uncle Dick who came each year pretending to be Santa Claus for neighborhood children. If I recall, he was juiced up at
the time, which made him hilarious.
Some
memories of Christmas were also eventful, but not always in a good
way. I served many years as a Law Enforcement Chaplain. I would see
the darker side of families who probably shouldn’t have been
together for the holiday. I’ve had to go to fatal accidents and
then report to parents the deaths of their children. Others
experience abandonment from family. I’m aware of someone whose
father said, “I don’t ever want to bother with you again.”
Some go through the agony of estrangement or illness.
You
probably have your own stories. But mine have balanced out somewhat.
When I was a young boy my Mom spent some time in the hospital for
depression. My dad worked swing shifts, so I became his overseer.
Christmas was fast approaching and we didn’t know if Mom would be
able to take a leave from the hospital. On Christmas Eve I saw
someone pull up in our drive. It was our pastor. He went around to
the passenger side and opened up the door...for our Mother! That was
the best Christmas gift I ever had, even better than that car garage.
I
close with this memory. In 1996, my wife and I went with a church
group to Israel. We went to Bethlehem to visit the Church of the
Nativity. As we descended into that small cave under the floor of the
church, we stood by the place that tradition says is the birthplace
of the Lord Jesus Christ!
The birthplace of Jesus Christ
You
may never get to visit the Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem, but
you can still experience it, every time you have a new birth among
your family and friends. Every birth is a fresh start, a new
beginning.
“Now
we look inside, and what we see is that anyone united with the
Messiah gets a fresh start, is created new. The old life is gone; a
new life emerges! Look at it! All this comes from the God who settled
the relationship between us and him, and then called us to settle our
relationships with each other. God put the world square with himself
through the Messiah, giving the world a fresh start by offering
forgiveness of sins.”
2
Corinthians 5:17-20
(The Message Translation).
How
does God give us that fresh start to become a new person? The answer
is a call to the manger. That gift overcame all brokenness, and estrangement from others and God, and provides
eternal life itself.